I also don't see it. Just created my character, then got told I needed to upgrade Flash. Upgraded, came back, and couldn't find a way back to the player setup screen I was on, or anything.
Hmm - Fleabies: I bet it is Adblock (even if disabled — at least we've had that problem with ClickToFlash when disabled). The only thing to try is using another browser (without any Flash blocking extensions): it should work fine then. Sorry about the hassle!