In memoriam: Matthew Shepard was beaten and left to die in a field simply because he was gay. This occured 13 years ago today. Please keep in mind the damage you do and the culture you enable when you don't stand up for gay rights and when you joke about things that suck being "gay." But for those of you that do stand up for the various allied queer and QUILTBAG communities, please never forget the wonderful things that you do and just how much they mean.